Whatever you are experiencing, thinking or feeling about yourself may have come from somewhere else other than you. Although you may have your own biographical traumas that have personally happened to you, it doesn’t mean that what you are carrying around these experiences only belongs to you. Things may have happened to you but it didn’t start with you.
We come from our Ancestors and what they have endured gets passed down to us through the genetic line. We will unconsciously try to take over these traumas that come from a deep sense of loyalty for our loved ones. Even if we have never met these ancestors the familial bond is so strong that we sometimes will unconsciously say “rather me than you”.
Family and Systemic Constellations is a solution based therapeutic approach that brings a deeper understanding and awareness to the client. The family constellation itself is an externalization of our inner images. This helps clients discover patterns and conflicts within the system by shedding light onto the hidden or subconscious dynamics that shape our behaviors and how we relate in the world.
Kelly has been trained in the Advanced level Family and Systemic Constellations from EISEC in Brussels, Belgium. She is a therapist who uses many modalities as well such as IFS Constellations, Structural Constellations and Timeline Therapy. She works with individuals and groups online and in person.
These sessions are done online or in person for the individual or the couple. Working online is a preferred way of working for many people. It is a way to have therapy from the comfort of your own home without having to change locations.
When working Individually or with a partner online or in person, the Constellation can be imagined visually in the Mind’s eye, or through a computer program where we can use avatars to represent family members or as abstract elements. In person we will use felts or dolls to represent family members. The client or Kelly can stand in the role to gather information about thoughts or feelings that may have been experienced by the ancestor. This will help the client gain insights into their issue and move toward a resolution after integration has occurred.
150 USD per session
185 USD per session
In a Group Session the client will identify an issue, problem or symptom that they may be dealing with in their life. Kelly collects information about the family tree by asking questions that relate to several issues within the family system, then will come up with a hypothesis that will best help uncover the issue presented.
Clients choose representatives to stand in the role of the family members and Kelly will ask for feedback from each role. By observing what each family member is experiencing, Kelly will give statements or movements that will help to bring insights and sometimes resolution to the client and the issue presented. This solution may unfold immediately or take days, or weeks to integrate.
Each session is unique to the client. Kelly has had profound experiences within this work and will factually state “ It has changed my life in the best way possible.” These sessions are also available in Nature.
These sessions are by request or are put together in workshop format.
225 USD for client
55 USD for participants